(not sure if this should go here or in health matters sorry!)

if you were diagnosed with an incurable diseaseright around the time you got married, would you still want to have kids?

No, not if I was going to die soon. That's something that depends on the situation, and I could only make a decision if I actually experienced it.

Not if I was going to die SOON, but I would still want them. I guess it would depend on the situation. That's a hard question

my friend has MS and in the first year of her marriage, she took these shots they say will prolong her life by 10-20 years, but she still has symptoms (her main one is no feeling in her fingers. so she cant even feel her son!) and she cant hold him very much because her arm could give out at any time.

I dont think i could have kids knowing that i wouldnt be able to feel my baby or hold them. i wouldnt feel like their mother i guess.