Do people find it ok to talk about what happenin "under the covers"

I think its depends on who you are talking to about it. Like me and my friends sit around n talk about things but I wouldnt juss have a sex conversation with anybody

It's OK for some but for me, that's beyond too personal. Only my hubs gets to hear about it :yes.

I think it depends who your talking to but for me I usually keep it to myself. I wouldn't like it if my DH said everything about our sex life... some things ok but to talk about everything isn't right to me. But I don't care if other people do it cuz it doesn't bother me. :)

I think it depends who your talking to but for me I usually keep it to myself. I wouldn't like it if my DH said everything about our sex life... some things ok but to talk about everything isn't right to me. But I don't care if other people do it cuz it doesn't bother me. :)

:agree this is true it depends who your talking to it about. He can say what he please as long as he doesnt go into it or anything. I know though that he does like me speaking about it.

I talk to a few very close friends about it, particullarly the girls who have been my best friends for 15 years, but HIS MOM keeps trying to ask me about it & that just really creeps me out!! :eek

I talk to a few very close friends about it, particullarly the girls who have been my best friends for 15 years, but HIS MOM keeps trying to ask me about it & that just really creeps me out!! :eek

Ok now that is creppy

i keep the details of my sex life offline.

it's one thing to say "my hubby's not getting any" or "i have a high sex drive because i'm pregnant"

but i wouldn't share every time we DTD or how it felt... or how horny i am... or specifics of my personal sexcapades... KWIM?

i keep the details of my sex life offline.

it's one thing to say "my hubby's not getting any" or "i have a high sex drive because i'm pregnant"

but i wouldn't share every time we DTD or how it felt... or how horny i am... or specifics of my personal sexcapades... KWIM?

:agree

Ok now that is creppy

No kidding- she is great but really, the woman is crazy :screwy

lol

I think its depends on who you are talking to about it. Like me and my friends sit around n talk about things but I wouldnt juss have a sex conversation with anybody

i agree :yes

i really only talk about it with my sister and my best friend from high school. i dont prefer to talk in too much detail about it with anybody else. i will talk generally about things but details are for db, my sista and my bestest!

i keep the details of my sex life offline.

it's one thing to say "my hubby's not getting any" or "i have a high sex drive because i'm pregnant"

but i wouldn't share every time we DTD or how it felt... or how horny i am... or specifics of my personal sexcapades... KWIM?

:yes I wouldn't bring it up online either lol. Unless it's the funny stuff like when DH comes back from a deployment and I put all the :sex smilies up. :giggle Other than that there are only a few people I will talk about it with and I still never go much into it. I keep 98% of it to myself. :)

i keep the details of my sex life offline.

it's one thing to say "my hubby's not getting any" or "i have a high sex drive because i'm pregnant"

but i wouldn't share every time we DTD or how it felt... or how horny i am... or specifics of my personal sexcapades... KWIM?

ditto

I think it depends on who because I do not just talk about sex with anyone , I only talk about it with my best friends and of course my fiancee.

Depends on the company I'm with. I may discuss certain things with a very close friend or family member, but I never ever just bring up our sex life to anyone.

We'll joke around with our really close friends about some of the lighter stuff, but whatever actually goes on is going to stay completely between us.

I really only talk about it with my best friend, who I've known for 11 years. And even with her, I dont get that detailed. Like maybe "Yeah we did it there" or if something bothers us or something like that, then we'll talk about it. But really I only ever talk to my db about it.

i keep the details of my sex life offline.

it's one thing to say "my hubby's not getting any" or "i have a high sex drive because i'm pregnant"

but i wouldn't share every time we DTD or how it felt... or how horny i am... or specifics of my personal sexcapades... KWIM?

:agree

depends who and where you are talking about it. work--no, with friends--yes. church--no, a "slumber party"--yes.

I'm pretty private about my :quote personal :quote life.

But, I used to work for Planned Parenthood. And, EVERYONE seems to take that as an open invitation to talk to me about their sex lives, in extreme detail. Which, I don't generally have a problem with. I like to be an open and understanding and helpful person. But, sometimes, it's a little much when someone calls me up and the first thing they say after "hello" is something personal and sexual! :rolleyes

It depends. I hate when people get graphic though. What the heck are they thinking!:scared

haha i dont mind talking about it at all with my like... 3 close girlfriends and obviously Kevin :) but if it was the two of us and we were with a bunch of our friends we would joke about it and stuff, we're not uptight about it guess, but i wouldn't get into detail with them obviously. but with my 3 good girl friends we have DEFINITELY got into detail haha its fun. but thats just me :mrgreen

I don't go into detail about our sex life but we do have 2 kids and have been together 15 years so I just guess people assume I have sex.:lol

My best friend is a lesbian, so obviously I'm not gonna share that with her. :giggle

My next closest friend doesn't like to have sex (yet she already has two kids?) We've shared some details (or mainly her complaints) of sex.

So the only person left that I would share that with is my gynecologist. :)

certain things to certain people.

I would only talk about to close friends. I found out one of the guys my husband works with sends this mass email every week to a bunch of guys updating them on his sex life... He talks about women in the most degrading way I have ever heard. It's completely vile. I just think it's private. Certain situations, ok, but it's not common conversation.

Only db would hear stuff like that from me. I believe it's the same with him. We don't share our personal lives with anyone else but ourselves.

I have a very small select few friends that we can talk about those things.

I have basically one REALLY good pal that I discuss it with. Even though I've know her since like, 5th grade, we still don't go into detail about it. Usually it's just vague venting or joking, and that's at the very most. DH and I usually don't discuss it a whole lot unless there's something wrong or it's in a complimental type of situation:P But personally I think that's an extremely persona thing that shouldn't really be discussed in groups

Just depends on who i'm talking to, my best friend I'll to to about it but she gets the pg version, other then that itsjust between me and tim

Depends with who...
and what I'm talking about. I know hubby wouldn't like it if I talked about him.
He is a very shy guy

A lot of my girlfriends talk about their sex life. I love them to death, trust them, and feel very close with them (as we've all known each other for about 17 years now!!!!). But when it comes to talking about MY sex life... I leave it out. To me... what happens btw the sheets is btw me and Kyle.

Kyle always asks me "Did you tell Heather about us having sex?" "Do you talk to Emily about us having sex?" and when I say no he's like "I thought girls all talked about sex to each other?!" Hahaha.

Well not THIS girl! :D

A lot of my girlfriends talk about their sex life. I love them to death, trust them, and feel very close with them (as we've all known each other for about 17 years now!!!!). But when it comes to talking about MY sex life... I leave it out. To me... what happens btw the sheets is btw me and Kyle.

Kyle always asks me "Did you tell Heather about us having sex?" "Do you talk to Emily about us having sex?" and when I say no he's like "I thought girls all talked about sex to each other?!" Hahaha.

Well not THIS girl! :D

I'm with you. What goes on under the sheets is private. But I am an open person and I don't offend easily so if light discussion on sex doesn't bother me at all.

:yes I wouldn't bring it up online either lol. Unless it's the funny stuff like when DH comes back from a deployment and I put all the :sex smilies up. :giggle Other than that there are only a few people I will talk about it with and I still never go much into it. I keep 98% of it to myself. :)

:agree

i keep the details of my sex life offline.

it's one thing to say "my hubby's not getting any" or "i have a high sex drive because i'm pregnant"

but i wouldn't share every time we DTD or how it felt... or how horny i am... or specifics of my personal sexcapades... KWIM?

I agree. I might say something generalized, but no details. I talk about sex with friends, but I rarely go into details. Some stuff just isn't meant for general chatter.

I have to say i'm pretty open, but it depends on the person and I don't just throw it out there but if i'm asked a direct question i'll generally answer it if i know the person

I don't talk about specifics when it comes to what me and my man do.. I love hearing about everyone else though, i'm your local sue johansen lol

I think it's perfectly fine to talk about when your with close girlfriends.

I don't feel so comfortable talking to guys about my sex life unless they are really close and I've known them for ages.

I don't know- depends on the level of closeness I feel with that person.

Even on SOS- If someone starts a thread in pillow talk, I won't go into depth about it unless im particularly close to the OP.

To some friends I'll talk about it. And we have a couple that are friends of ours that we share the funny stories with, but thats pretty much it. I dont like going into detail with people.

Depends on how many drinks I've had :lmao

I think it's perfectly fine to talk about when your with close girlfriends.

I don't feel so comfortable talking to guys about my sex life unless they are really close and I've known them for ages.

I don't know- depends on the level of closeness I feel with that person.

Even on SOS- If someone starts a thread in pillow talk, I won't go into depth about it unless im particularly close to the OP.

:temper i still can't see pillow talk

I agree with the who and when. I have talked to good friends about sex but no others. They are the same as me and will say nothing to others. It actually helps for some things and for hints.

it depends on who you tell and what you tell them.

I think its depends on who you are talking to about it. Like me and my friends sit around n talk about things but I wouldnt juss have a sex conversation with anybody

:yes

Depends on how many drinks I've had :lmao

sooo true. but no, really, only a couple longtime friends and one friend in another state...and they don't get details, although they sometimes ask... i can't talk to my parents so i have to talk at least a little bit with someone, or else it feels like i'm keeping some kinda secret, which is weird. i try not to tell many people, though, because stuff always gets out somehow and people :gossip and that makes me feel ashamed.

I am very open about it. I wont exactly roll up to some stranger or DB's family and start blabbing :lol but I dont mind talking to friends about it. Maybe it is from how I was raised :dunno it might also be my semi-feminist views. I feel like sex is considered taboo sometimes but I think it is very beautiful and natural.

I think personally it depends on who your talking to. SOS sure why not, you're mans boyz or their wives, probably not the best idea lol

It really depends on what the topic and circumstances are. I might mention that I got some great lovin' the night before or me and a pal will have a conversation about positions, but exact details, no, I don't htink that's appropiate to mention. It's no one's business but ours.