I have been feeling really depressed lately and I think most of it is caused by me being away from my fiancee and I feel very lonely, I wish I had some navy gfs or wifes that I could hang out with in person, someone to understand what I'm going through, you know??? Does anyone ever feel so depressed that they just don't want to do anything but lay in bed and watch tv???? I just want my hunny back already.....

Been there done that. it's hard when you don't have anyone in your similar situation around you. where are you located?

I'm in San Antonio, TX...and you????

Katy, Texas.. practically neighbors.. lol

Yes.. I still get like that at times. This is a great place to be, because everyone understands what you are going through. :hugWhere are you located at, maybe you can post and see if there are other girls on here in your location.. I wouldnt be surprised! PM me if you need anything, we all have been there.. It sucks, girl. Good luck and just stay strong, thats all you can do. We all deserve those nights curled up in the bed with a pint of icecream, LifeTime and our pj's on..

well thanks you guys are great!!! do yall have yahoo messenger???? or something

I do.. if you want my sn just pm me and i will send it to you. :D

I use to get that way when DB and I first went to different colleges (before he joined the navy)You just need to get yourself up and find something you enjoy doing that takes your mind of being alone. It is ok to have bad days though. I know it is hard not having anyone around to talk to but if you ever want to chat feel free to PM me.

I think the hard part is just not being able to talk to anyone about this , expecially my parents wow , they have no idea what its like . When I am with my man , I can talk to him about everything so thats why its so hard, when he is gone for this long of time.

omg YES i know exactly how you feel. i swear i never ever feel like getting up in the morning, but i do it because i have to go to work and continue living my life. and i know that Kevin, and im sure all of your men, would rather you go on and continue living your life instead of moping around because they dont want us to be sad... but i cant help it! i would rather just sleep all day, and thats sad. i havent gone out in a whiiiiile either because i just dont FEEL like it ya know? its definitely very bittersweet... we met the love of our lives and yet we cant be with them :sigh

I know its driving me nuts!!! I know , that I should be getting out and doing things since I am 18 years old. I feel incomplete with out him , he is my other half. I don't have a job yet lol. sad huh? I just can't wait to be his wife.

Hi there. I'm not a navy gf, but I AM an army gf and I think I kind of know what you're going through. I was like that today. I noticed...I'm in SA too!

:yes I understand.

I was feeling that way exactly, so I decided to go see a movie by myself. It was so relaxing I decided to do it twice again already. Doesn't work for everyone, but got me out of the house and interacting with some others. :)

Aww I know how you feel, whenever the hubby first left, all I wanted to do was stay in my pj's and curl up in bed and cry but you get through it and it does get easier, it just takes a little time but dont worry things will get better in the end and you two will be together before you know it :)

Oh I am right there with you!!!! ((I'm in New York, he's in Hawaii.)) It seems like NO ONE understands what I am going through. And usually their response is, "You should just be lucky he's not out on a ship." Honestly, that is true, but it doesn't make the HUGE distance any less hurtful! I am blessed to be able to talk to him as much as I want ((well, besides when we both work lol)). But yes, I always fall into that depression thing. It sucks!

I wish I was closer! I'd totally hang out with you! :D

Oh girl.. The problem with me is.. I actually do lay in bed, watch tv. And go to work and straight home everynight .. sad huh?

I have been feeling really depressed lately and I think most of it is caused by me being away from my fiancee and I feel very lonely, I wish I had some navy gfs or wifes that I could hang out with in person, someone to understand what I'm going through, you know??? Does anyone ever feel so depressed that they just don't want to do anything but lay in bed and watch tv???? I just want my hunny back already.....

I know wut you mean. I have no real in person friends that are also in love with military guys. I try to just do something else to take my mind off of it.

I am there with you right now - for the past week I cant hardley find the energy or want to, to get out of bed I have all kinds of stuff I need to do but feel too depressed to do it. and like you I have no military people around me to share the pain with (except for you all that is) but I know what you mean about it would be nice to hang out with someone in the same situation - I dont know how I will make it through these next 12 to 15 months!!!

i know how you feel, but i think you'll feel better by gettign up and doing things. staying busy is the name of the game !!

Hey! I know this doesn't help much but I am coming to San Antonio for db's graduation. On Thursday night we are going out with some of his buddies if you want to come along. I don't know them at all. OR! Wednesday night he has to stay on base so if you wanted to hang out with me on Wednesday night I would love that!!!! Let me know. If not its cool i totally understand i won't be offended, I already know i'm the crazy girl :D