Hey what do you goes write to your loved one? I try not to write to much that I miss him and that I cant wait til he gets home because I dont want him to get depressed but I was just wondering what you guys write about. I dont know is that makes sense but I have been writing about five to six letters a day and I dont want them to become something that depresses my guy. so just wondering :)

thanks. :confused

I make sure he knows how much he is appreciated and how important he is to me. An ego boost is something every man needs exspecially when they are in a tough situation. That support is crutial to his survival. Just help him feel loved and appreciated without saying over and over again you miss him. He knows ya miss him he misses you too ;) and sometimes telling them you miss them, only makes them miss you more. So just encourage him in different ways :)

Mostly just go through my day like he is sitting right next to me. tell him some of the funny things that happen to me through out my day or week. To me I view him as a diary, I just tell him how I am feeling on that particular day or week.

i would tell dh when he was in boot about all the little things i did everyday. i would write like i got up early this morning and worked out. went to lunch with friends, etc etc that sort of thing. tell him you love him and that you can't wait to see him. things like that. i had a general rule that i wouldn't say i miss you or can't wait to see you more than once per page

Just how much I love him, what I have dreams about, little naughty notes about him and things I hope to do in our future. I dont talk about our kids because it upsets him.

I tell him about any interesting dreams I remember, as detailed of a summary of my day as I can remember (so that he doesn't think he's missing anything in my so-un-exciting life), and I make sure to put one Ego-boosting/Uplifting comment for him in each one.

Naughty notes, occasionally. lol. And, also occasionally, something random that I've thought we should do/try at some unspecified point in the future.

I used to tell him how life sucked without him by my side, how I missed him so much, how I couldn't sleep, eat or think without him being in my thoughts. How life looked so dull without his light and presence around. Umm I also looked to the future alot- I would write about how I couldn't wait until we could REALLY start our lives together (hasn't happened yet), how good it would be when we would finally have our own place, dog, car, careers and children. How we would have our date nights every tuesday and we would both discuss what we would do on those dates. Just mushy stuff like that. I also told him what was happening on my side of the world, in my life and the silly things that used to seem so big, but seem so little now etc.

I used to draw inspiration off my feelings, thoughts and desires.

At first I just emailed but I talked to a friend and he said that getting letters/cards in the mail was so cool so I've started sending both. I alternate with cards and letters and I will send one sappy card (I love you, miss you, can't wait for you to be home and how I proud I am of him) and then a day or so later I send a card with a naughty thought :giggle He told me yesterday that he likes the cards especially the naughty ones .... :lmao typical guy :lmao I usually put the letters in care packages or bigger envelopes with gifts in them.