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BzzzWife
07-05-2007, 01:01 AM
What are some of the insecurities you have that your husband/bf/fiance/partner doesn't even know about???

Victoria
07-05-2007, 01:03 AM
I don't really think I have any that Bryan isn't aware of.

OMG it's Andrea!
07-05-2007, 01:20 AM
stretch marks :(

kkristenmmarie
07-05-2007, 01:46 AM
he knows em all...and is constantly reassuring me that I am "seeing things" haha

M&N
07-05-2007, 09:39 AM
I'm not saying I'm perfect or anything, but I don't have any real physical insecurities with him.

But I became insecure over another girl for the first time during his leave! One of his friends brought over a new girl he started seeing and she had EVERYTHING in common with my DB! They spent the entire night talking about tools, tattoos and cars! The night ended with her asking him to teach her how to fix cars! :( That made me insecure, but I told him the next day. He reassured me that he doesn't want someone who has everything in common with him and he likes that we're different. (L)

Jennifer
07-05-2007, 10:19 AM
I'll admit it, I have a big one. Jer is my one and only when it comes to sex, but he's been with others before me...and I often(less now than before) wonder if he compares me to them. :blush it's stupid..but it worries me. It's the only real insecurity I have when it comes to him.

bunkie
07-05-2007, 10:20 AM
I am always worried he will try to do something I dont want him to do but recently I've realized he isn't like that and not to hold back.

harrisonsdream
07-05-2007, 10:21 AM
he knows them all but i don't think he knows how deep some of them go

hteew
07-05-2007, 10:23 AM
I think he knows them, but won't comment on them.

LuvsHarleys
07-05-2007, 10:25 AM
About how I look... That I have lost so much weight but somethings I can't do anything about at this point.

jlbecker
07-05-2007, 01:24 PM
he knows them all, but not to the full extent. he doesn't know that the reason i get nervous with him in the car is cause one of my ex's (dickhead) used to scare me on purpose while driving.

sdshorty
07-05-2007, 01:25 PM
I'm not shy about telling him my insecurities, he pretty much knows all of them, LOL

hisjoker
07-05-2007, 04:22 PM
um... i have to many to count and he doesnt' know all but most.

proudnavygf18
07-05-2007, 04:59 PM
I dont have many with him but when we first started dating lol...it was my ass and just seeing me naked at all , because I didnt feel that comfortable with him yet but now I dont care anymore , he told me I am beautiful and he loves my body so thats good to hear lol.

Del
07-05-2007, 09:55 PM
Stretch marks. My thighs. My feet. Him finding some girl better than me. (Basically, he knows that my self-image is fucked up in some respects, but he has NO IDEA how bad my self-esteem can really get.) That he'll never realize/understand a lot of my family stuff. That he might not be fussy for my piercings/tattoos. That I look like crap when I first wake up. :lol

Veronica
07-05-2007, 10:03 PM
he knows them ALL, but not how deep some of them run.

chelsea<3josh
07-06-2007, 08:18 AM
he knows them all but really doesn't understand howcome they are my insecurities. that in itself is frustrating, because i want them to not be there, but they are, i can't help it and he just doesn't get it. i am working on myself and getting over them, but it is hard!!!!

sgmwife1
07-06-2007, 08:29 AM
DH is well aware of my insecurities...I keep him informed alittle too much I think.

Teresa
07-06-2007, 09:28 AM
I'm pretty sure he knows most of them but I don't think he understands them. My latest one is that I am not smart enough for him :screwy I feel like I'm the only one out of all of his co-worker's wives that does not have a college degree.

leasey_eastcoast
07-06-2007, 03:27 PM
Im pretty sure he knows them all.