When you were TTC did you feel like it was the only thing on your mind? What if it doesn't happen? What if it does happen? Lol, I can't stop thinking about it! And I know they say to minimize stress, but I can't seem to not stress about it!

not really. dh and i made the decision to just not prevent or actively try kwim?

Yes, when we first started I was like that. I've really come to accept that it's all in God's timing though and don't stress it too much..it's why there are no TTC blinkies or anything in my sig. I'm really just trying to go with the flow, we are young and in love and know what our issues are...after 6 months I'll probably start stressing, but it's all in God's hands.

I thought the title post said "Oil"....I had to do a double take before I realized it said "Oy" spelled different. :lol

Yup, it was pretty much all I thought of from the moment we decided to ttc, until the moment I got my BFP. With my dd we got pg that first month, but it took 4 cycles to conceive my ds. I don't know how you are supposed to NOT think about it??!! Good luck

No I didnt, but I also got preggo with the first try both times so I dont think I had the time to think what if it doesnt happen!

Yes. I am going through that now. I wasn't trying when I got pg for Piper. Now I wonder about how long its going to take and all that jazz. It didn't happen our first month. Hopefully it doesn't take too long because I have the fever bad!!!!

Yup for almost 2 years I was a crazy woman. Im surprised i never grabbed me dh and yelled GET ME PREGNANT ALREADY!!! Go figure the second we decided 1 was enough I found out I was pregnant the next day LOL