Not getting pregnant when you are trying? I am way early into my TTC, but with DH leaving for a while in October, I feel a little more pressue. I am trying to not think about it, knowing it will make actually concieving that much harder, but it is almost like I am so nervous about getting a negative pregnancy test that I can't help but think it wont happen, ya know?

yes, I know what you mean. We are ttc too and Im already thinking ahead to when I can take a pregnancy test! :giggle


:bbdust:bbdust for you and me :hugs

Haha, I am right there with you. I am supposed to test on the 24th and it is all I can think about....,minus getting booty for the next few days...lol.

It's hard, especially to be TTC and know someone who isn't financially responsible or even prepared for a kid in any way shape or form get pregnant on "accident"... I used to get so mad about it. It took us a year to concieve DD.

lol! :giggle yeh my mind is on the booty too!! :yes

good luck with you test :D I will test on the 28th! and hoping too! :preggo


Haha, I am right there with you. I am supposed to test on the 24th and it is all I can think about....,minus getting booty for the next few days...lol.

It sucks I know..we have been ttc'n for 6 years. I just had a visit with my 4th fertility doc..and my hubby doesnt come home until dec :lol

much baby vibes to all...

It took me 9.5 years to get pregnant with my son. In that time I saw alot of pregnanices, had alot of why me's, alot of anger, hurt, frusteration, guilt and the like. I kept going to the dr, finally got a diagnosis, medication/fertility meds and viola..pregnant.

Good luck to you TTC. Its hard to not think about it. In the 9.5 years I TTC, even if I wasnt "obsessing" it was in the back of my mind always.

lol! :giggle yeh my mind is on the booty too!! :yes

good luck with you test :D I will test on the 28th! and hoping too! :preggo

Wow! We are pretty close together with our testing! That would be pretty exciting if we bot got :preggo this month!

:goodvibes :goodvibes to all those TTC and remember everything happens for a reason. Maybe for some odd reason your not meant to get pregnant right now and in a month the time will come. ;)

Take a vacation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That's when we conceived our lil Ethan after 7 months of trying. :)

that would be exciting!!!

More :bbdust:bbdust:bbdust:bbdust:bbdust:bbdust for us! :giggle




more Wow! We are pretty close together with our testing! That would be pretty exciting if we bot got :preggo this month!

I guess I am not obsessing becuase I know it takes the average woman 6 months to conceive, with no problems. I know we have problems, so it's not going to be that easy. I want to enjoy it...and maybe in a year if we aren't pregnant then, I might stress it....but I want to enjoy trying to conceive our child. I know it will happen in God's time, so I can relax a bit...I'm really trying to go into this with a relaxed attitude.