Gumby2886
08-01-2007, 08:38 PM
I'm not real sure if this is where i need to post this or not, but i have just gone through a miscarrige and i'd like to find others out there that have gone through the same thing to see how others have dealt with it. if anyone has any input i would greatly appriciate it. thanks! :)
Mommy2Bailey
08-01-2007, 08:41 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. I had a misscarriage in Nov of last year.
goldilockz
08-01-2007, 08:43 PM
I've had one that was confirmed and a possible later that same year. :hugs to you.
How are you doing hon?
I am sorry. I went through one about three and a half months ago :hugs
momto5lilmonkeys
08-01-2007, 08:48 PM
I'm so sorry ((hugs)) I just went through one in April.
Casey
08-01-2007, 09:11 PM
I am going through one right now and its tough.
~Jess~
08-01-2007, 10:04 PM
:hugs I'm sorry I lost my son at 19wks Nov 05
farmerschyk
08-01-2007, 10:26 PM
:hugs sweetie!!! I am so sorry for your loss
tifflovezyou
08-01-2007, 10:32 PM
I have, it was a rough time for me. I found out I was pregnant at my six week check up after having my daughter. Though it was shocking, we dealt with it. I got myself VERY excited. As we were telling my family at a reunion that we were expecting again, I doubled over in pain. My hubs took me to the hospital, I lost the baby. I was horrified, they actually had to sedate me. It was very tramatic to both of us. Ive been there, and I know how bad it can be. If you need anything, PLEASE feel free to PM me :) :hugs
*~*Cori*~*
08-01-2007, 11:13 PM
I am so sorry you are going through this Darling :no
I went through one myself in February :tears
Kaymara
08-01-2007, 11:17 PM
I had one in 2002. It was devasting and took me awhile to deal. I bought a book called coping with miscarriage and that helped me ALOT. I also let some balloons go in memory of my angel. 1 blue and 1 pink. That was to give me a bit of closure. : hugs to you
usnkarebear
08-01-2007, 11:18 PM
I have had 6 miscarriages and 1 ectopic.. It is very hard! The best way I can describe what I went through is an emotional rollarcoaster! Good days and bad! I was told when I was 16 that I could not have kids by 5 different drs. They said I could get pregnant but that I would not be able to carry or deliver needless to say they were wrong! My son who I had at 18 will be 7 this year and I have an 18mnth old. My only advice in how to cope is talk to someone who has been through it... :myop I just had to tell myself that fate has a hand in everything and that this baby just wasn't meant to be mine!:hang It gets easier to deal with and if you are still worried about it talk to your dr about it and maybe he/she can help you deal with the rollercoaster! :grouphug
define
08-02-2007, 01:56 AM
:( I'm sorry for your loss. :hugs
Daydreamer
08-02-2007, 01:59 AM
:sadeyes I just wanted to say I am sorry. :bigsadhug
I'm going through my third right now. I'm sorry for your loss :hugs :hugs
SailorWife2B0620
08-02-2007, 04:44 AM
Its very hard to cope with. I still have not fully moved on. Just try to be positive. :hugs
Nicci
08-02-2007, 06:41 AM
I had one in 2005. I wasn't ready so I was upset that I got pregnant (condom baby) but eventually I adjusted to it and started to look forward to it. DH was over the moon about it. Then I lost it. It actually took DH longer to get over it than me. But it was still tough. One thing I learned is that it's far more common than I ever thought and is usually due to a problem with the pregnancy. The doctor told me there was something wrong with mine, it wasn't growing properly. So my body got rid of it. I guess it's a healthy thing, but it still hurts. But that helped me to think of it like that...I want a healthy child that can live a full life.
Margaret
08-02-2007, 06:45 AM
I am sorry girl! I went through one in Feb of 06. If you need anything Pm me
Gumby2886
08-02-2007, 05:47 PM
i just wanted to say thank you to each one of you who reponded. thanks for all of the support and kind words. i know i can just take it one day at a time, but i'm glad there is a place i can come and talk about it. thanks ladies!!! :)