Today has been so hard b/c today is mine and Matt's 2 year wedding annv. I haven't heard from him in what feels like forever. I'm not sure how to deal with today because it's reminder that i'm alone and he's so far away. I love him so much for what he does and I'm so proud of him but some days I wish he was home. I guess i'm just being a cry baby. Does anyone else feel like me or am I just being a whiny brat? Thanks :tears

No, you have every right to be upset that he can't be there! It sucks and I'm sorry!!! I know it helps me to go out and buy something for the both of us-not necessaraly somethign expensive, but a game or something we can both do when he gets back. I'll also go and buy some stuff for him for the ocasion(annivesary, christmas, ect) and I'll send him out a themed package. IT makes him feel better! Hopefully you get to hear from him today!!!

:tears Waiting on their calls is so :poop'y I hope he calls soon! :glomp

No I throw myself pitty parties all the time...I moved three hours away(which isnt that bad) and I have no friends where I'm at and when my DH isnt around I cry because I get lonely, and that's why Im so glad that I accidently found this site :grouphug

That's rough! I've only been with SO for one year, and he's been here for all the important days-- but I know he wouldn't hesitate to volunteer for deployment- because that's what he does. Write him a letter or send a card with a package- that kind of thing makes me feel better- & do something nice for yourself today. Take care, Sweety!

:hugs i'm sorry

you aren't a cry baby because you miss him on your special day.

i know how it feels girl, i've had to spend a wedding anniversary alone and it sucks. Go out and do something nice for yourself and buy him something to send to him.

:hugs :hugs you aren't a cry baby at all!

aww! youre not being a whiny brat!! i feel that way all the time; mine's been gone for about 3months and i hardly get to talk to him.. it must be harder being married and all. i really hope you get to hear from him soon

:hugs