View Full Version : Teens who discuss their problems excessively risk depression, study finds


harrisonsdream
08-06-2007, 11:23 AM
PSYCHOLOGY
Too much girl talk?
Teens who discuss their problems excessively risk depression, study finds


By LINDSAY MINNEMA
The Washington Post

Girls who confide their problems to their friends do themselves a favor and benefit psychologically, right? Not necessarily.

A study published this month in the journal Developmental Psychology finds that excessive discussion of their problems might harm preteen and teen girls more than it helps them. Researchers even coined a term to describe the phenomenon: co-rumination. Adolescent girls who co-ruminate, or dwell on their problems by rehashing and analyzing them with their friends, tended to show more signs of depression and anxiety than others, the study found.

"Talking about their problems too much keeps those problems in close focus — makes them feel bigger and harder to solve," said Amanda J. Rose, lead author of the study and an associate professor of psychology at the University of Missouri at Columbia. "It also may keep them from engaging in more-pleasant activities that might take their mind off their problems."

Boys who aired problems with peers did not appear to have similarly elevated levels of depression and anxiety. Rose said this was likely because boys tend to externalize issues and "were more likely to blame someone else for their problems."

Researchers surveyed more than 800 students in the third, fifth, seventh and ninth grades, asking them about their problem-sharing, any depression and anxiety they experienced, and the quality of friendships they maintained. Though dwelling on their worries seemed to make adolescent girls more depressed, it also had one positive result: It made friendships closer and stronger. Boys who shared problems also had closer friendships than boys who did not, the researchers found.



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i can see how they would believe this. the constant rehashing of negative or seemingly negative events is one of the schools of thought that causes depression

MIKOSWIFEY
08-06-2007, 11:25 AM
Whining never made anyone feel better about stuff, so it's not surprising.

texasgal
08-06-2007, 12:46 PM
i can see why young girls would feel the need to vent problems over and over. it's what they see on the tv, internet, media in general. when something happens in the news, how many times is it shown and discussed? thousands! especially with celebrities. maybe constant discussion of their issues is one way these girls "elevate" themselves. i'm not blaming media only. parents definitely have their fair share in this as well i'm sure. but one thing the article didn't touch on is what exctly the nature of the problem is with the girls in the study. if it's someting as serious as a crappy home life, then that is something that is constantly in her life and will be constantly discussed, and is a good factor for deppression. :shrug who knows with adolescent girls...

MIKOSWIFEY
08-06-2007, 12:50 PM
Well heck if you're 15 and you are having guy problems (as minor in the grand scheme of things as we all know THOSE are at that age) and you bitch and bitch and bitch about it to your friends and dwell on it constantly, then you're going to make yourself depressed. No matter how small the issue, when you dwell on things, you can't work past them and you will end up bitter and/or depressed.