When I do get to talk to him he sounds empty. There isn't any thing in his voice. Sorda cold. He says he tiered and they have been doing a lot but I can't help but be worried. He keeps telling me that i'm being distant. That when he calls i'm always doing something and he feels like i don't want to talk to him. I plan my whole day around when I think he's going to call and I stop everything I'm doing to talk to him. I tell him that. I love him so much and I would go crazy with out him. I want to do something nice for him this weekend. I'm not sure so I was woundering if you guys had any thoughts on what I should do. Thanks so much for all of the surport and great advice.

Do you have the ability to go for a night to a B&B or something to that affect? Do you know if he has a good understanding of his own feelings?