i know that everyone here is going thru the same things or have been thru my same situation. i know im not the only girl in the world that feels this way. i read thru the different posts and its like im writing the topics myself.

i just want to cry so bad.. i miss him so much and i really dont have any support other than this website.. living in a military town youd think there were plenty of resources. but, being "just a girlfriend" i have no significance to the military, whatsoever.

and you know, its not even like he's in iraq. its just korea.. but he's already been gone 3 months before this and now i have to wait 18 more. thats 3 months shy of 2 years i have to be without him. and, as much as he wants to he cant get over this suspicion that ill be just like his ex and leave him. he's so protective of his own feelings that he tends to completely shut me out. he acts like im not scared too. for all i know, he could catch some disease or come strolling back "oh, by the way. this is wife and 3 month old son". it hurts that he doesnt trust me. and it hurts to know that im suppose to be here, being faithful and miserable, while he's there doing God knows what.. not that i dont want to be faithful. i love him. he's without a doubt the man i want to be with for the rest of my life..

he's so distant when it comes to emotions. i try to just think of the good times and believe him when he says he cares. but, sometimes actions speak louder than words you know.. i just miss him. i feel so alone sometimes. its like, i finally found a good thing, real love and its been taken away from me. i have no idea whats going to happen in the future.. i want to be with him more than anything, but im still scared... whyd he have to leave... its not fair.

Its about trust and communication. If your love for eachother is strong enough to with stand being apart, it will be so strong in the end.

:glomp :hugs

You and he have to work extra hard at making it work. And maybe its only Korea, but any distance is hard. Hang in there hun, it'll get easier-- You guys can make this work. Your both just going to have to give 110% :)

Im here if you want to PM me :D

:hugs :hugs

thanks.. i guess i was just having a break down. so much stuff going on right now. i know ill be ok. ive made it this far hehe

You WILL be OK. Remember that! Your strong enough to make it. Hang in there, it will all fall together, even if it feels like your falling apart. :glomp

Its about trust and communication. If your love for eachother is strong enough to with stand being apart, it will be so strong in the end.

:glomp :hugs

You and he have to work extra hard at making it work. And maybe its only Korea, but any distance is hard. Hang in there hun, it'll get easier-- You guys can make this work. Your both just going to have to give 110% :)

Im here if you want to PM me :D

:agree

Distance is distance and that's never easy. But just remember:

Absense is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small and enkindles the great.

:agree

Distance is distance and that's never easy. But just remember:

Absense is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small and enkindles the great.

Perfect quote Tawny!

i know that everyone here is going thru the same things or have been thru my same situation. i know im not the only girl in the world that feels this way. i read thru the different posts and its like im writing the topics myself.

i just want to cry so bad.. i miss him so much and i really dont have any support other than this website.. living in a military town youd think there were plenty of resources. but, being "just a girlfriend" i have no significance to the military, whatsoever.

and you know, its not even like he's in iraq. its just korea.. but he's already been gone 3 months before this and now i have to wait 18 more. thats 3 months shy of 2 years i have to be without him. and, as much as he wants to he cant get over this suspicion that ill be just like his ex and leave him. he's so protective of his own feelings that he tends to completely shut me out. he acts like im not scared too. for all i know, he could catch some disease or come strolling back "oh, by the way. this is wife and 3 month old son". it hurts that he doesnt trust me. and it hurts to know that im suppose to be here, being faithful and miserable, while he's there doing God knows what.. not that i dont want to be faithful. i love him. he's without a doubt the man i want to be with for the rest of my life..

he's so distant when it comes to emotions. i try to just think of the good times and believe him when he says he cares. but, sometimes actions speak louder than words you know.. i just miss him. i feel so alone sometimes. its like, i finally found a good thing, real love and its been taken away from me. i have no idea whats going to happen in the future.. i want to be with him more than anything, but im still scared... whyd he have to leave... its not fair.

I story and fears a nearly EXACTLY the same. So, I need the advice as well. Please PM me....we can do this together!:chest

Hang in there. We're here for you :hugs

thanks everyone. glad i found this site hehe

Absense is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small and enkindles the great.

Love the quote, I gotta remember that one!

I'm sorry. I understand what you are going through.. It sucks, but you will get through it. I would LOVE to tell you it gets easier, but here I am, 2 months later, and I feel like it's getting worse......

Ok, maybe not the best person to give "it'll be ok advice" today lol, but I am DEF here if you want to pm me and vent and all that!!!! I'm def here for you!

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:agree

Distance is distance and that's never easy. But just remember:

Absense is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small and enkindles the great.

I love this...I saw it posted a few days ago and it is helping me to get through the same trying times with my DB right now.

Keep your heads up ladies. We can definately get through this.
:grphug

Tawny and Tiff said it best. Hang in there. You will be OK and we're here for you. :hugs

Hang in there honey.. I know easier said than done :hugs