I just wanted to say hello to all! I had a question for you guys. Matt is in NC for traing. he could be there for MONTHS! He brought up me moving there but I wouldn't live on base. I would get to see him on most weekends and sometimes at night. I really want to be with him and I want CJ to know who his daddy is. I'm sorda scared because i'll be there by my self most of the time. Should I move there or wait til he gets stationed somewhere. I guess this a stupid question I should be running to him. I'm just scared to move somewhere with my son that i don't know anything about. Thanks so much!

I dont know. If you arent married make sure you can afford the move. If you can I say go for it

I agree if you can afford it, I would go and be near him. But it can be frightening going somewhere with a baby, where you will spend most of your time alone, I can totaly relate to that. I think it is something you need to discuss seriously with your SO. If you do decide to move, I am sure you will make new friends quite fast, at maybe, mother and baby clubs, if they have that sort of thing. Maybe you could do some research to find out what the area is like and what it has to offer in the way of something social for you, to meet other moms. PM me if you have a questions.

Hugzzzzzzz and welcome to SOS :D