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harrisonsdream
09-02-2007, 06:01 PM
can rapists and pedophiles be rehabilitated?

annmarie
09-02-2007, 06:05 PM
absolutely not........ and to those who would disagree I ask you this, are you willing to take the chance with yourself, your mother , your sister or your children??

Wicked
09-02-2007, 06:06 PM
Rapists yes, pedophiles, depends on what you mean by rehabilitated. LOL.

Hope
09-02-2007, 06:07 PM
Hmm... I don't know. Perhaps rapists can, but IMO pedophiles cannot.

Amber V
09-02-2007, 06:07 PM
I might be biased but I think No, Never!!! It is a sick perversion. Those people do need help I agree 100% with that but they also should not ever be around their "temptation". That keeps everyone safe.

MIKOSWIFEY
09-02-2007, 06:08 PM
Nope. Not if it's a pattern of behavior. I think they should all be put to death though, so I guess I'm just horrible.

mclarke
09-02-2007, 06:08 PM
I don't believe so.

harrisonsdream
09-02-2007, 06:13 PM
nope i don't think they can be.

Traci
09-02-2007, 06:14 PM
Maybe, but it's nothing I would ever take a chance with.

wyochick
09-02-2007, 06:16 PM
Ok here are my two cents. My dad is actually a psycologist and he works with sex offenders and I actually asked him this question. Rapists do have the ability to be rehabilitated(this does not mean I would ever trust one) but pedophiles cannot. They can all go to their meetings and get help to control themselves but the urge will never go away. So rapists can overcome it but pedophiles do not have the ability to do so.

Kiser'sBabe
09-02-2007, 06:17 PM
Nope I don't think so.

SezzySue
09-02-2007, 06:49 PM
I am sure they can, but I don't feel like they deserve the chance to find out. Why chance it, thats how I feel

Pebbles
09-02-2007, 06:54 PM
I don't feel either of them can be rehabilitated. I think that the urge or thought to do some evil is ingrained in them.

BLBnJVB3
09-02-2007, 07:00 PM
Rapists; possibly. Pedophiles; no. I believe a person doesn't control who they are attracted to. For instance, I'm attracted to men. I didn't choose to be, I just am. Therefore, I don't believe a pedophile can really be rehabilitated. Maybe he/she can avoid getting themselves involved with kids but I don't believe they can ever change being attracted to kids.

taraw226
09-02-2007, 09:24 PM
Rapists; possibly. Pedophiles; no. I believe a person doesn't control who they are attracted to. For instance, I'm attracted to men. I didn't choose to be, I just am. Therefore, I don't believe a pedophile can really be rehabilitated. Maybe he/she can avoid getting themselves involved with kids but I don't believe they can ever change being attracted to kids.

:agree you took the words out of my mouth, but said them a lot more eloquently than i could have

lisa0323
09-02-2007, 09:28 PM
I don't think they can be "cured" or rehabilitated.

Wicked
09-02-2007, 09:35 PM
Ok here are my two cents. My dad is actually a psycologist and he works with sex offenders and I actually asked him this question. Rapists do have the ability to be rehabilitated(this does not mean I would ever trust one) but pedophiles cannot. They can all go to their meetings and get help to control themselves but the urge will never go away. So rapists can overcome it but pedophiles do not have the ability to do so.

Your answer is why I said what I did! I am right there with you.

I think rapists can be rehabilitated because rape isn't about sex, it's about control.

Pedophiles I don't think can be rehabilitated in the sense that they can be cured of lusting after children. Then can be rehabilitated in the sense that they can be trained to resist the urges.

I think everyone deserves a chance to be rehabilitated. That doesn't mean I think they should be let loose in the general population.

ash
09-02-2007, 09:37 PM
Your answer is why I said what I did! I am right there with you.

I think rapists can be rehabilitated because rape isn't about sex, it's about control.

Pedophiles I don't think can be rehabilitated in the sense that they can be cured of lusting after children. Then can be rehabilitated in the sense that they can be trained to resist the urges.

I think everyone deserves a chance to be rehabilitated. That doesn't mean I think they should be let loose in the general population.

I totally agree.

CoffeeGirl
09-02-2007, 09:40 PM
nope i don't think they can be.

I agree-I don't wish to debate it or anything, it is just my personal opinion

chelsea<3josh
09-02-2007, 10:26 PM
first of all for the past year and a half i have worked with juvenile male delinquents more of them then not (id say over 30 in the past year) were sex offenders JUVENILE sex offenders, rapists. i can't speak about the pedi's because i have no experience working with them, BUT the sex offenders, rapists, i feel can be rehabiliated. these are KIDS that were raping others because that was done to them. by NO MEANS am i making excuses for them or justifiying what they have done, BUT they are sick kids that need help. i think they have the right to be rehabiliated. some will go on to live normal, happy lives and be successful. MOST will stay in the system, some will re-offend as adults, and go back in the system, some will just do other petty crimes. i do think that they all need treatment and help. can you imagine how shitty it must feel to have done something like that as a child because it is considered normal to you. because your dad raped you, so you think that is what life is supposed to be like?! i can not imagine. people are SICK. these kids are sick too, and should take responsiblity for what they have done. some do, some dont, the ones that don't are the ones to watch out for because they are the ones that will re-offend as adults.

as for adult rapists and pedophiles i think that they need help and treatment, but i think it is harder for them to change. in fact i don't think that they can control their urges. it is all about a cycle. sex offenders cycle...and if they ignore their urges, and their cycles they will do it again. they are sick in their heads....


absolutely not........ and to those who would disagree I ask you this, are you willing to take the chance with yourself, your mother , your sister or your children??

i want to say that you don't always know who is a sex offender or not. they work at mcdonalds, burger king etc. if your child is working there they could be exposed and around one. you have no idea, they don't wear a sign. i worked with them, and i was around them. not that id want my kids around them, but they are out in the community, you never ever know who somebody is. so yes i took the risk myself and worked with those kids, they are sick, they need help, if somebody doesn't take the chance on them they will never get the help they need. if my mom, sister or kids, when they grew up, wanted to work with them, id be for it. it is hard and challenging but SOMEBODY has to do it. they need help!

Brandi
09-02-2007, 11:51 PM
No, I don't think so.

tna111905
09-03-2007, 09:03 AM
no I dont think so

LittleMsSunshine
09-03-2007, 01:22 PM
Ok here are my two cents. My dad is actually a psycologist and he works with sex offenders and I actually asked him this question. Rapists do have the ability to be rehabilitated(this does not mean I would ever trust one) but pedophiles cannot. They can all go to their meetings and get help to control themselves but the urge will never go away. So rapists can overcome it but pedophiles do not have the ability to do so.

I'm no psychologist... but that was also my initial thought. I think it's one of those things that can be controlled with a lot of effort.... but not something that'll ever go away.

I'm definitely biased, but I'll always side with the victim on this one. Maybe rapists/pedophiles can be "rehabilitated," I don't know... but frankly, I don't think they deserve the chance.

fridayheather
09-03-2007, 01:28 PM
Your answer is why I said what I did! I am right there with you.

I think rapists can be rehabilitated because rape isn't about sex, it's about control.

Pedophiles I don't think can be rehabilitated in the sense that they can be cured of lusting after children. Then can be rehabilitated in the sense that they can be trained to resist the urges.

I think everyone deserves a chance to be rehabilitated. That doesn't mean I think they should be let loose in the general population.

I totally agree with everything you said. :yes

thelinks99
09-03-2007, 06:29 PM
NO, I don't think so. And i don't wanna take the risk to find out.

missyanne24
09-03-2007, 06:48 PM
No.