Ok this is kinda a delimma and i aint to sure what to do.So i was wondering what ya'll would do?

Ok DF is due back the day before DS birthday. Now the problem is should i celebrate both together or seperately? but how do you really celebrate a birthday at a hotel for the few days your staying there?

seperate! i would say do two diff dinners or something like that:) i think if you do them together at leasr ds might feel not so special

yeah thats true...didnt really think about that. thanks.

I would put his birthday off until a few days or the following weekend so your DH won't feel overwhelmed and then everyone can be settled down enough for it to be all about him.

I would put his birthday off until a few days or the following weekend so your DH won't feel overwhelmed and then everyone can be settled down enough for it to be all about him.

that's what i was going to say, but she said it much better. :lol