you find yourself missing him (or her) the most? My man competes in Scottish Athletics and today I went to a highland games and saw some of his friends. Everyone was asking about him. It was a nice day and didn't feel sad until I started to walk back to the car by myself. I started to tear up and realized that while it was a good day something about it was empty. I just missed him so. What things do you find yourself doing that just aren't the same without him here?

eating in general.. we would always eat together. and going to the jetties where we would jsut sit and watch lightning all the time.. now i only do that when im sad and want to cry to myself.

He's a movie buff, I find myself always wondering if he'd like the movie im watching.

Watching Scoobie Doo makes me think about him because we watched it together our first date.

watching sports, going to the movies, going out to eat, falling asleep...

those are the biggest

there is a bar that we always went to when he was here but now its hard for me to be there without him

i can't go to drum corps shows without him because they make me think of him too much. i'm really not as interested if football if he isn't around.

I really miss not having him here to golf with-we always have alot of fun when we go golfing together. Also, I really miss having him here around the house with stuff like burning the trash and cooking. He'll chatter away while I'm cleaning or cooking and I miss his chatter and all his goofy stories

waking up in the mornings on the weekends

watching football

going out to eat and ordering strawberry lemonades

i can't go to drum corps shows without him because they make me think of him too much. i'm really not as interested if football if he isn't around.

Yay for another DCI fan!!!!!! I love DCI's. It is hard to watch. I went to the semi-finals at the movie theater with my boyfriend before he left. I watched finals on ESPN and cried for the night.

YAY for DCI!!!

watching sports, going to the movies, going out to eat, falling asleep...

those are the biggest

Exactly- same here :( especially when we are loosing our game- like right now.

Going to this town, Westfield, isn't the same...we went to alot of coffee shops there...it was our thing...Haven't gone since my boyfriend left. I can't to NY at night(barhopping) either yet...we use to do that alot...

:bigsadhug

Studying. Odd but true. He was my study buddy. I haven't been able to get barely anything done since school started.

eating in general.. we would always eat together. and going to the jetties where we would jsut sit and watch lightning all the time.. now i only do that when im sad and want to cry to myself.

aww you are going to make me cry dammit! :bigsadhug

This one's obvious, hanging out with his friends. Ever since DB left I've gotten really close to his friends. There are three or four that I hang out with one on one but there are always alot of get togethers on the weekends that I go to. It's whenever someone says something funny or sarcastic that I know DB would have just jumped right on to say something back and I catch myself wondering what he would do if he were here.

This one's obvious, hanging out with his friends. Ever since DB left I've gotten really close to his friends. There are three or four that I hang out with one on one but there are always alot of get togethers on the weekends that I go to. It's whenever someone says something funny or sarcastic that I know DB would have just jumped right on to say something back and I catch myself wondering what he would do if he were here.

I'm the same way. It's so hard to be around his friends but I seek them out when I can because it helps me feel connected to him. I think he likes it too because it means that I am still part of his social world....besides that way he can check up on me :giggle

everything.

going out to dinner. hanging out with friends together. lazy sundays, ordering pizza and watching movies.

i miss him driving. i dont like driving at all so whenever i get stuck in a crappy situation (bad driver, traffic etc) i miss him more... normally HE was happy to deal with it while i just sang with the radio.

i also miss our little chats before we fell asleep... its too quiet at night now.