I talked to my DH on the phone and he was acting very weird :sigh he said all the usual things about how much he love and miss me BUT he seems very distant to me :sigh so I asked him what was wrong with him and he took a deep breath and said he was ready to come home. We continued our conversation but he still was not acting like my DH :sadeyes is this normal how should I react to this, I'm scared and worried for him:sigh

He probably just had a really hard day. I know DH told me that he misses me the most after he's had a hard day because he says that comming home to me and just looking at me relaxes him. So it could be something like that. Just continue to support him and let him know how much you love and miss him and want him home. Good luck!

Guys go thru the same emotions as us. Just they show and feel it differently. He is probably missing home very much, missing you, tired and the like. About the best you can do is just be there to listen when he needs to vent and let him know how much he is also loved and missed. Maybe go buy him a card, make him a care package or something to help brighten a day for him

:hugs to you

He probably just had a really hard day. I know DH told me that he misses me the most after he's had a hard day because he says that comming home to me and just looking at me relaxes him. So it could be something like that. Just continue to support him and let him know how much you love and miss him and want him home. Good luck!

Sometimes I feel like I'm doing something wrong, like I should be doing more :confused

Guys go thru the same emotions as us. Just they show and feel it differently. He is probably missing home very much, missing you, tired and the like. About the best you can do is just be there to listen when he needs to vent and let him know how much he is also loved and missed. Maybe go buy him a card, make him a care package or something to help brighten a day for him

:hugs to you

When I do talk to him I always ask him to tell me anything but it's like he don't want to talk about it which is so stressful for me, It bothers me because he seems so down. I will send him another care package hopefully it will cheer him up.

This is really hard on them to girly. It's very normal to have these ups and downs. Just continue to support him and tell him you love him. Thats really all you can do for right now. Keep your chin up girl...HUGS

This is really hard on them to girly. It's very normal to have these ups and downs. Just continue to support him and tell him you love him. Thats really all you can do for right now. Keep your chin up girl...HUGS

Thanks Eireann, I guess I never realized that men go through the same emotions as women especially him because he usually don't show it.

Yes they do, even when they don't show it. Stay positive and keep supporting him and try to chear him up even when you feel it wont happen. :hugs

Mine has done the same, yesterday morning and this morning. It's really getting me down. :( I hope things start looking up for him :hugs

I suggest making him something-get a small box and decorate it and put stuff in there that reminds him of you-your perfume, a pic of you together, your favorite shirt,ect. Then send it to him in addition to your regular care packages. I'm sure it'll help him feel better!