Hey ladies. So I have been like REALLY excited about DB coming home and finally meeting him and stuff. :sigh But right now my stomach hurts and I am scared shitless.:confuzzle Am I doing the right thing?! :puzz I mean should I be single like all of my friends? Am I ready to settle down? How do I know this man is right for me? I feel like just bursting out in tears! :arg WTF am I getting myself into!:worried I swore I'd never love another military man! I swore I would never torture myself with this any more. WTF AM I DOING?! AHHH I am making myself sick :tears :pukey :puke

HELP :tears

:shock you sound JUST like me, but I have been married to my guy for almost 8 yrs!
I should be happy, but I am emotional, moody, tearful, depressed, anxious and I too feel like I am going to be sick all over.
It's just cold feet. We'll BOTH get over it. :hugehug

lol first of all calmmmmmmmmmm down i did theSAME thing i was with my ex for a long time and we went through basic and part of a school and just couldnt do it any more he became mean and neither one of us was happy i swore up and down i woudnt be in another millitary relationship...then i met db online and i was SO nervvous when he actually got here but the second he hugged me and picked me up and said ive been waiting for this it all flew out the window and now im madly in love with him:) pm me if you want to chat i understand what ur going through:)

The second you see him face to face and he wraps his arms around you.... you will know if it is meant to be. :blush

Just hang in there. You're perfectly normal to be feeling this way, I promise!

i know what you mean, but it'll be ok! if you love him, he loves you, it'll be fine! i think it's normal to feel anxious about seeing your SO again for the first time in a long time, but it'll be sooooooooo good!!! :)

I went through the same thing sweetie! You know where to find me if you need to talk. :hugs

If you love him and care about him those feelings will subside. Yes, the military isn't exactly relationship friendly. You've come this far, you can't turn back now!!

Feeling any better today?

Breathe sweetie! It's going to be okay. I met my DB soon to be DF online too. I had the same nervous jittery feelings. But I bet that as soon as you see him those feelings will probably go away. I know mine did. Whenever I finally got to hug DB and look into his eyes for the first time, any doubt I had went away. This is just a big change. Give it time to settle down. And don't forget to just keep breathing! :hugs :glomp :hug It'll be ok.

Feeling any better today?

Hey girls! Today Was a lot better :) I mean I just see how much DB loves me and how much he cares about ME as a person and not ME physically. I think all this kicked in when This guy was like "Hey girl let me get a piece of dat ass" I was like WOW lol but it made me appreciate mah man :) Thanks for making me feel normal! Even if I am not lol thanks for lieing :lol

(L) it will get better :wub

Oh my god- hun.. believe me I know EXACTLY how you are feeling.

Funny enough- I was ok meeting dh and I flew to the other side of the world! But omg- when he went on leave 9 months later, and I flew to LA- 10 minutes before he landed (I waited 6 hrs at the airport because his flight from iraq was later)...I started to get very VERY panicked. I felt the exact same way you are feeling.

I was feeling physically sick- I had to do everything I could not to throw up on my luggage. I was crying and soooooo scared. I just wanted to run away. A few people asked if I was ok- and I sat down crying next to one man, he gave me a hug and told me the exact same thing a few ladies just told you- "Once he wraps his arms around you, all your nerves will dissapear".

And so- they did. Everything went splendid- I was pacing the terminal when he came up behind me and gave me a hug- and you know what- all was at ease!

YOU WILL BE FINE! YOU WILL BE FINE!!!!!! He's going to love you more than he does now! And you're going to love him more then you do right now! And you 2 will have sooo much fun together. Everything will be alright. Your nerves are just talking right now.

Oh my god- hun.. believe me I know EXACTLY how you are feeling.

Funny enough- I was ok meeting dh and I flew to the other side of the world! But omg- when he went on leave 9 months later, and I flew to LA- 10 minutes before he landed (I waited 6 hrs at the airport because his flight from iraq was later)...I started to get very VERY panicked. I felt the exact same way you are feeling.

I was feeling physically sick- I had to do everything I could not to throw up on my luggage. I was crying and soooooo scared. I just wanted to run away. A few people asked if I was ok- and I sat down crying next to one man, he gave me a hug and told me the exact same thing a few ladies just told you- "Once he wraps his arms around you, all your nerves will dissapear".

And so- they did. Everything went splendid- I was pacing the terminal when he came up behind me and gave me a hug- and you know what- all was at ease!

YOU WILL BE FINE! YOU WILL BE FINE!!!!!! He's going to love you more than he does now! And you're going to love him more then you do right now! And you 2 will have sooo much fun together. Everything will be alright. Your nerves are just talking right now.

Thanks girlie! I know that once he touches me I will be on :cloud9 but its just getting there lol. I got an email from him (apparently he had to email his mommy cause they were coming in 2 days early :puke) and so he emailed me and told me that he missed me and that he couldn't wait to see me :sadeyes gahhh its just soo crazy waiting :sigh but I will and I know it will be worth it. Thanks for all the encouragement...I need all I can get cause my friends do NOT understand!